if your are not being nurtured you are being abused. period.
Earlier I posted a quote on Facebook ...
"Never wrestle with people who can't affirm and build you... If you are not being nurtured, you are being abused."
How true this is. Imagine the spouse that is experiencing spousal abuse, let's for example purposes say the wife is hitting the husband, abusing him, yet on non-hitting days, the wife is loving the husband fully and apologizing for the injury caused just the day, hour, min before... The fact that the wife is saying sorry, does not erase the abuse.
Affirmation and nurturing are the same. I can't build you one day, and on the next day tear you down. It's in the instance of tearing you down that I begin to steal your destiny (word scars) and extract you from a frame of mind that is conducive to your optimal ethos.
Joy Reiman of BrightHouse talks about the nurturing of ideas ....


